To be fair the Bush girls were drinking and pretty obnoxious at that age, or close to, it too. I think it is overall the sense of entitlement of being young, rich, and having been sheltered from the consequences of your actions. But, in every instance, yes, it is a parenting fail to have a kid that behaves like that. I don't think there should be any secret service protection to past presidents and their families, ever. Sorry but once you are out of office whatever happens to you is no longer our problem. Although its hard to say whether or not they were secret service, or just paid security.
https://www.sla.ny.gov/system/files/StateLiquorAuthority-RetailLicenseesHandbook.pdf
HOW CAN YOU PREVENT SALES TO MINORS? It is a crime to sell, deliver or give away alcoholic beverages to a person under the age of 21. As the licensee, you are subject to disciplinary action by the SLA whether you or your employee served the minor. It does not matter whether you thought the person was at least 21, if they lied about their age, or if they appeared to be at least 21 years old. You are responsible for sales made directly to the minor. You are also responsible for “indirect deliveries,” when another person gives the alcoholic beverage to the minor, if you could have prevented the indirect delivery using reasonable diligence. Although you are not required to ask for proof of age, the SLA strongly recommends that you do so. Requiring customers to produce valid photo identification, together with verifying that the person providing you with the identification is the same person shown on the identification, may help you avoid any sanctions being imposed by the SLA. 20 State Liquor Authority-Retail Licensees Handbook.indd 22 9/6/2013 8:25:02 AM Only the following forms of identification may be accepted: 1) Valid New York State driver’s license or a valid driver’s license from any other state or Canada; 2) Valid identification issued by the New York Department of Motor Vehicles (Non-Driver ID card); 3) Valid United States military identification; or 4) Valid passport or visa from the United States government or any other country. College or Sheriff’s Department identification cards are not acceptable as the primary means to determine the customer’s age. However, they can be used in addition to one of the acceptable forms of identification to verify information. You should ask for identification every time, even from a customer that has previously provided you with some proof of age. When reviewing identification offered by a customer, you or your employees should be checking: 1) for tampered or fake documents; 2) the date of birth; and 3) whether the person has the same eye color, hair color, height, etc., as set forth in the identification. The SLA recommends that you have all employees who serve or sell alcoholic beverages take an Alcohol Training Awareness Program. These training programs are not only an effective way to prevent underage sales from taking place but, in the event the SLA charges you with a violation, proof that your staff has participated in training may reduce the penalty that will be imposed by the SLA. The SLA’s website contains a list of approved providers of such training. In addition, you should take the following steps to help prevent sales to minors: post “Date Born After” signs in close proximity to all points of sale and service; have a written policy on what you expect from employees when making alcoholic beverage sales; establish an ongoing training and education program for all employees; encourage responsible drinking when advertising your establishment; and support your employees when they refuse to make a sale. You should also consider the purchase of a scanner device to verify that the identifications presented to you are valid. A sale to a minor is considered one of the most serious violations of the ABCL. The SLA and law enforcement agencies throughout the state routinely conduct operations to monitor your compliance with the law. These operations may consist of investigators observing sales made to the general public in your establishment. They may also involve the use of underage agents to test whether you have sufficient safeguards in place to prevent sales to minors. Do not assume that because a customer looks old enough to purchase alcoholic beverages, or lies about his/her age, that you are not responsible if the person is, in fact, a minor. The law imposes the obligation on you and your employees to make sure that the customer is at least 21. You should refuse to make any sale unless you are prepared to accept responsibility if the customer is underage.