Oh darling, I have only just seen your message. I too am sorry I get a bit irritable when greiving, I think we all go a bit nuts after loosing a loved one, don't we.
You didn't hurt me , just annoyed me a bit and I should have said something to you not anyone else, sorry. You were only trying to be puppy doggish helpful when I was talking to ocud or what ever their silly nic is .....
Don't worry pet, I might be a bit prickly for a while, though after downing a bottle of wine and having a rant last night I feel a bit better. It was Teddy giving us such a scare the night that I first was told Indy only had days maybe a week left ,and that now I am told Teds might have a hiatal hernia, so I am on tender hooks every moment, having no wheels myself and that night not finding anyone willing to help for hours was really frightening, with one dog screaming in pain and another having constant 24 hour needs.