Minotaur
Governor
Sometimes death or reality can come on a roadway through no bad intention.
While dining out we talked to our young server with the sad eyes. Somehow the eyes looked older and wiser in conflict with her years. We learned she was involved in an accident and a woman in the other car died. She wondered if she could have done anything differently to change that outcome. I didn't ask her who was at fault as fault seemed less important than seeing what she was living with. Sometimes someone can do everything right and it all falls apart simply by taking the wrong turn onto a road that holds your future whether you survive or not. Her eyes told the story. It was enough and I had no need to ask.
That is how it works sometimes when the best of intentions can go terribly wrong. We see it in politics as well when a good man or woman may think with their heart and take a wrong turn that takes them to their future and ages them. When you see it you just have to turn away from the disasterous results and move on but not invent a story that tries to find blame in others. If you witness those caught in life's mystery you can't forget their old eyes, you can only learn when there is nothing to gain from blaming without caring.
We had what I consider to be one of the most caring President I have ever seen when Bush became President. The exact moment he took a well intended wrong turn was here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kNqQx7sjoS8&feature=related
The economic result is known. Don't pretend it away, don't forget it, don't blame the EMT's or the clean up crews as it is not something that can be undone. It just is sometimes when a wrong road takes it's toll and a good person is left to struggle to understand a loss. The toll shows in their sad eyes no matter the age, no matter the loss, no matter the situation or road taken. We can only remember to learn or be there to care. We can't close our eyes and pretend it away.
While dining out we talked to our young server with the sad eyes. Somehow the eyes looked older and wiser in conflict with her years. We learned she was involved in an accident and a woman in the other car died. She wondered if she could have done anything differently to change that outcome. I didn't ask her who was at fault as fault seemed less important than seeing what she was living with. Sometimes someone can do everything right and it all falls apart simply by taking the wrong turn onto a road that holds your future whether you survive or not. Her eyes told the story. It was enough and I had no need to ask.
That is how it works sometimes when the best of intentions can go terribly wrong. We see it in politics as well when a good man or woman may think with their heart and take a wrong turn that takes them to their future and ages them. When you see it you just have to turn away from the disasterous results and move on but not invent a story that tries to find blame in others. If you witness those caught in life's mystery you can't forget their old eyes, you can only learn when there is nothing to gain from blaming without caring.
We had what I consider to be one of the most caring President I have ever seen when Bush became President. The exact moment he took a well intended wrong turn was here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kNqQx7sjoS8&feature=related
The economic result is known. Don't pretend it away, don't forget it, don't blame the EMT's or the clean up crews as it is not something that can be undone. It just is sometimes when a wrong road takes it's toll and a good person is left to struggle to understand a loss. The toll shows in their sad eyes no matter the age, no matter the loss, no matter the situation or road taken. We can only remember to learn or be there to care. We can't close our eyes and pretend it away.