I believe that the GOP needs to be more inclusive and reach out. There are plenty of women in the GOP, but they are of the sort that believe that a woman really is responsible for her own body; responsible enough not to get pregnant if she doesn't want a baby right now. But the GOP needs to broaden out and admit that sometimes things happen to even the most responsible woman and she gets pregnant and is also responsible for how she deals with that pregnancy (and it might include abortion). And the GOP needs to back away from the thought that ALL abortion is out of the question, even an abortion after rape and incest or if the mother's life is in danger. It's okay for individuals to believe that to be true but the public policy needs to be about a woman's personal responsibility and choice.
I think that the way to expand the GOP's outreach is to make it a personal belief versus a political/ legal stand on an issue. I am personally against any abortion except one done to save the mother's life. But legally and politically, I am firmly in favor of having abortion remain legal. A doctor and his patient should never have to worry about legal ramifications when deciding what is best. My personal feelings on abortion are irrelevant in deciding what legal position should be available.
The way that the GOP can expand its borders is to make that distinction between personal belief and legality in abortion and in other areas such as gay marriage. Some on the far right will be lost, but the GOP must move center, not dig in further to the right.
The war on women in general that is put out there .....the "Stepford Wife" thing....... simply is not true. No Republican woman that I know (and I know many) has EVER been the little stepford wife.